Too Early For That Final Step?
Next on your Divorce Ready schedule is to spend some time considering if you’re all set to go through the door marked Exit!
It may sound strange but even after going through bad experiences and suffering abuse you still need to ask yourself some more questions:
Naturally, the best divorces are those where both Spouses agree that they want separate futures and can still deal with each other about the kids in a mature, co-operative and positive manner: but these are few and far between. Unfortunately, if there is still hatred, resentment, bitterness or anger, concentrating on these negative emotions and giving vent to them will make your divorce that much more acrimonious.
The best thing you can possibly do at this stage, is to forget what you’ve read in books, seen on movies, or heard from your friends, family and neighbours and listen to yourself. Ask yourself what do you want? Then, go and get the best advice from Specialist Divorce Attorneys. These Professionals are impartial and objective. Their job is to give you the finest legal advice that is right for your particular situation and also focus on your future in order to ensure that you and your children are protected going forward. This applies to Spouses of either sex.
Only you know when you’re ready for divorce and chances are, if you’re reading this then you’ve possibly been ready for it for some time.