If you ignored the previous warning signs, then eventually abuse and cruelty occur and inevitably become the norm. Your put off visit to a Divorce Attorney is long overdue: you really need to make an appointment and keep it.
Once again there are a variety of different indicators but at this stage of the proceedings you have to be brain dead not to notice.
At this stage you know with absolute certainty that your Spouse is controlling and abusing you. You should also wake up to the fact that your marriage is over – you should have been divorced already.
Accept that it’s not going to get better by itself – in fact it will probably deteriorate.